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Sunday, October 1, 2017

"Every Knee Shall Bow." A sermon from Littlefield Presbyteria Church on World Communion and Peacemaking Sunday.

Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr and other civil rights activists kneel in prayer.

"Every Knee Shall Bow"

Philippians 2:1-13; Matthew 21:23-32


In the gospel lesson we heard today, Jesus is in Jerusalem. He has entered the city with the crowds cheering and shouting “Hosanna!”. He cleansed and occupied the Temple. On the second day, Jesus’ opponents begin a series of five challenges that try to undermine his authority.
            In this first challenge, the chief priests and elders of the people-- the religious authorities who pose the question-- are the very ones who will later conspire to have him arrested and put to death.  They demand to know: "By what authority are you doing these things?  Who gave you this authority to do them?"
            Jesus avoids their trap and turns the tables on the religious leaders with a question of his own: “Did the baptism of John come from heaven, or was it of human origin?” Then he tells the parable of the two sons and asks, “Which son does the will of his father?”
            There’s a lot in this parable--probably enough for more than one sermon. One of the things I hear in the parable is that the future is open. God is here, inviting each of us into a future that holds the possibility of receiving God’s grace, repenting of things we’ve done, returning to right relationship with God and others, and receiving the future as open and full of grace and hope.
            We live in a time of great division over politics and beliefs and values and race-- things that people feel very strongly about.   In the midst of this divisiveness, how are we called to live, as followers of Jesus?

            Over the past week, I’ve been following the conflict over the NFL. Early in the week, one of my Facebook friends who is a professor of New Testament, pointed to the Philippians text.  Heads up!

            Writing from prison, the apostle Paul has been encouraging the church at Philippi to “live your life in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ.”[1]  He goes on to appeal for community unity and individual humility. He asks the church to “make his joy complete” by being “of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.” 
            Along with unity, Paul is appealing for humility. This humility is grounded in Christ’s “humbling” himself to the point of crucifixion.

            Christ comes very near, and works in us. “God is the one working in you both the willing and the working.” God gives us the desire and energy to be instruments of Christ’s compassion in the world.  Paul exhorts the Philippians to “work out their salvation.” But this isn’t their private, individual destiny, but the quality of their corporate life, as it is lived in Christ. Paul has already described this quality of life in terms of mutual love and affection, sharing in the Spirit, unity, humility, putting others first--and all of this “in Christ.”

In your relationships with one another,
let the same mindset be in you that was in Christ Jesus,
who though he was in the form of God,
did not regard equality with God as something to be exploited,
but emptied himself, taking the form of a slave,
Being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form, he humbled himself
And became obedient to the point of death--even death on a cross.
Therefore, God also exalted him
And gave him the name
That is above every name,
So that at the name of Jesus
Every knee should bend,
In heaven and on earth and under the earth,
And every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
To the glory of God the Father.[3]

            At the name of Jesus, every knee should bend.
            There’s been a lot of conversation lately about kneeling, or “taking a knee.”
             Many people have been offended or annoyed by the players who take a knee during the national anthem, while many others have supported them. 
            Those who are offended are saying things like, “They’re disrespecting the flag!” “They’re disrespecting the Anthem!” “They’re disrespecting the military!”
            Those who say this ignore what the protesters have said repeatedly about why they’re kneeling.
            Last week Eric Reid wrote in the New York Times that he began paying attention to reports about the numbers of unarmed black people being killed by police. One in particular brought him to tears: the killing of Alton Sterling in his hometown.  He wrote, “I wanted to do something, but didn’t know what or how to do it. All I knew for sure is that I wanted it to be as respectful as possible.”
            A few weeks later, during pre-season, his teammate Colin Kaepernick chose to sit on the bench during the National Anthem to protest police brutality, but nobody noticed for a few weeks. When his protest gained national attention, the backlash against him began.
            Eric Reid wrote, “That’s when my faith moved me to take action. I looked to James 2:17, which states, ‘Faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead.’ I knew I needed to stand up for what is right.”
            He and Kaepernick talked.  Then they had a meeting with Nate Boyer, a former Green Beret and Seattle Seahawks long-snapper. Boyer said he saw in the quarterback a person who wanted to make his message about racial injustice in the country clear, but who also wanted to find a better way to do it

which is when they decided that it would be better, more respectful to the military, to kneel.  Boyer remembers they talked about how people take a knee to pray. In the military, when they’re exhausted on patrol, they say take a knee and face out. They take a knee as a sign of respect in front of a brother’s grave site.[4]
             
            I imagine there are people here today who have felt offended or disapproving about how some have been “taking a knee” during the National Anthem and that there are others who support their nonviolent protest.  Maybe some just feel uncomfortable being reminded of racial injustice and wish people would stop talking about it. Maybe some feel conflicted about it and are struggling.

            I’m not here to tell anybody which side they should be on in this controversy.  What I am called to do is to continually proclaim God’s word, and keep reminding us that we are all called to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with God,[5] and to keep asking us to think and pray about what that looks like for us today. What does it look like for us to be humble and to look to the interests of others?
            I think that humbling ourselves requires us to listen, to open ourselves to understanding and being in solidarity with others, especially those who are oppressed, including trying to understand why someone would decide to use whatever platform or opportunity they have for peaceful protest of injustice.
            Colin Kaepernick and some of the others who are protesting are our brothers and sisters in Christ.
            Kaepernick is a Christian who was baptized Methodist, confirmed Lutheran and attended a Baptist church during his college years.  He has a Bible scroll with Psalm 18:39 tattooed on his right arm. Underneath is written “To God be the Glory.”
            Is it possible that Kaepernick and some others kneel not out of disrespect but as an act of faith?

            I keep thinking about the kneeling and how Kaepernick decided to kneel rather than sit after talking with a veteran. But I keep thinking there’s a link to his Christian faith.
            Kneeling can show respect or reverence. It can show humility.  Many churches, especially Catholic churches, have kneelers. I remember that to take communion in the Methodist church in which I grew up, you had to go forward and kneel at the railing to receive communion.  In the church, over the centuries, kneeling has been seen as a holy, worshipful act.[6]

            Some of the beautiful things about our nation are our diversity… our freedom of religion--freedom to practice any religion we choose or not to practice any religion-- and separation of church and state.
            On my Grandmother Frances’ side of the family, I have Brethren in Christ roots, which is part of the Anabaptist tradition, which came out of Radical Reformation.  Within the Anabaptist tradition, it is believed that it is a denial of their Christian faith to pledge their allegiance to anyone or anything other than to Jesus, and it’s common to abstain from symbolic acts such as displaying the flag or singing the national anthem.  There is also a deep appreciation that they live in a country where religious differences are tolerated and gratitude for the freedoms we enjoy, including the freedom for conscientious objectors whose scruples prevent them from bearing arms in the military to perform alternative service  
            As a Presbyterian, I remember that John Calvin wrote, “The human mind is a perpetual factory of idols.” [7]

            Among the great themes of the Reformed tradition listed in our Presbyterian Book of Order is “the recognition of the human tendency to idolatry and tyranny, which calls the people of God to work for the transformation of society by seeking justice and living in obedience to the Word of God.”[8]
             As I followed the commentary this week and meditated on the questions of authority and the call to humility and unity in our scripture lessons, I kept remembering what the John Pavlovitz suggested in a post:
            “Maybe we should all be kneeling right now….
            “And instead of demonizing Colin Kaepernick and instead of blaming shooting victims, and instead of shouting down our brothers and sisters of color as they mourn—we should be listening to them.
            “More than that, we should be saying with our presence and our pain and our social media voices and our dollars, that we are grieving alongside them; that this is not okay with us, that this is not the America we want either.”[9]
            On this World Communion Sunday, we celebrate our unity with our brothers and sisters in Christ around the world.  We celebrate the good news that Christ has broken down the dividing wall between people...  and that Christ is our peace.[10]  
             Today, Christians come together around the Lord's Table-- the one place where we are one, no matter what our race, or language, or nationality or theology or politics.
            As we come to celebrate this sacred feast with our brothers and sisters in the faith, let us pray that we may be filled with Christ's passionate dislike of whatever keeps us from his peace. Let us heed those in our time those who raise a prophetic voice against the ways of injustice and oppression and call God's people back to God's ways of righteousness and peace, and let us remember them each day in our prayers.
            As we eat the bread and drink from the cup, may we do so in thankfulness for the unity we find in Christ...  and in willingness to go out to be God's peacemakers in the world.
            Amen! 

Rev. Fran Hayes, Pastor
Littlefield Presbyterian Church
Dearborn, Michigan
October 1, 2017


[1]Philippians 1:27-30
[2] Susan Eastman, in “Commentary on Philippians 2:1-13, at Working Preacher. http://www.workingpreacher.org/preaching.aspx?commentary_id=1009

[3] Philippians 2

[4] Nick Wagoner, “From a seat to a knee: How Colin Kaepernick and Nate Boyer are trying to effect change. http://www.espn.com/blog/san-francisco-49ers/post/_/id/19253/from-a-seat-to-a-knee-how-colin-kaepernick-and-nate-boyer-are-trying-to-affect-change


[5] Micah 6:8
[7] Jean Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion (1560), Book 1, Chapter XI, section 8.
[8] Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) Book of Order 2015-2017, F-2.05.
[10]Ephesians 2:14-
.








Monday, June 29, 2015

Why I Am an Ally: A Personal Reflection. Why I care.




“Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love.”[1]

            The past few weeks have been an emotional roller coaster for me, and for a lot of people, in terms of what’s going on in our nation and the world.  I have been mourning the loss of nine lives of African-Americans while they were studying the Bible and praying together at Emanuel AME Church in Charleston, SC.   Last Friday the Supreme Court ruled that it is legal for all Americans to marry the people they love, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation.   We’re also learning that  at least 5 predominately black  churches have  been burned in the past week or so, with at least 3 determined to be arson..  This has all affected me deeply.
            I think it’s important to understand the particular sensitivities and passions that are a part of who we are as persons.  So I’ve given this a lot of thought.  As I was growing up in rural Pennsylvania, a variety of influences worked together to instill in me a strong sense of fairness and compassion.  In the early 1970’s, I married an African-American man, which would have been a felony in some states until 1967 when the Supreme Court ruled that restricting the freedom to marry solely on the basis of race violates the central meaning of equal protection under the law.  My son is biracial and identifies as African-American.  I have family and friends and brothers and sisters in the Christian faith who are persons of color.  Because I care about people whose everyday lives are impacted by prejudice and injustice, I need to care about this. 
            I have family members who are gay.  There is deep pain,  sadness and regret over a broken relationship. Loving parents lost a beloved child over words that were said years ago.  
            Over the years I have become friends with LGBTQ persons.  I have heard their stories and have come to appreciate their paths to self-acceptance and understanding and living with integrity, as who they were created to be.    Because of my growing awareness, I am very intentional when I choose words.  I say “sexual orientation” rather “sexual preference” or “lifestyle choice” to reflect my understanding that they do not choose to be attracted to persons of the same gender, any more than I could choose to be attracted to another woman. 
            I have known a number of LGBTQ persons who have been in long-term, committed, mutually fulfilling relationships.  A  former neighbor was the first person to cross the street and welcome me to the neighborhood when I moved here. He and his partner were fairly private, but casual conversations gave me insights into their life together, as an older couple who had been together for several decades.  When he was diagnosed with cancer, his partner cared for him throughout his illness until he died, as any loving spouse would. 
            I am privileged to have LGBTQ friends who are persons of faith.  Some of them are among the kindest, most loving and compassionate, gentle persons I know.  All of them are like all  the rest of us humans, with individual strengths and weaknesses and quirks.  Their sexual orientation or identification is just one part of who they are.
            Since moving to Dearborn 18 years ago, I have been involved with interfaith work and have become friends with people in the Muslim and Arab-American communities.  I live in east Dearborn, so my relationships with neighbors are interfaith as well.  I am grateful for the relationships I have in the community, for the graciousness and hospitality I have experienced.  Because they are my friends and neighbors and colleagues, I need to care about them.
            In my training to be a chaplain and a pastor, one of the questions I was taught to ask is “Where is God in this?”  Another is, “What kind of a God do we worship?”
            As a Christian, I see myself as a follower of Jesus, who I believe “came to live among us, full of grace and truth.”[2]  Near the beginning of his ministry, Jesus went to the synagogue on the Sabbath and was given the scroll of Isaiah, and he read, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has anointed me to bring good news to the poor.  He has sent me to proclaim release to the captives and recovery of sight to the blind, to let the oppressed go free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.’ He rolled up the scroll… and began to say to them, ‘Today this scripture has been fulfilled in your hearing.”[3]  With many others, I regard this as Jesus’ mission statement, one that guides my sense of mission.
            Jesus made it clear what is most important for those who follow him.  People came to Jesus and asked him, “What is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus answered, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”[4]  In a related passage in the gospel according to Luke, a lawyer wants to justify himself, so he asks Jesus, “Who is my neighbor?”  Jesus responds by telling the parable of the good Samaritan, in which the person seen by society as unacceptable is held up as an example of a good neighbor.[5]
            I see practicing unconditional love as one of the most important parts of my life of faith, and it is a test of my faith:  “Those who say, ‘I love God,’ and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars, for those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen. Those who love God must love their brothers and sisters also.”[6]

            So why am I an ally to those who are marginalized or oppressed?  Partly because I care about people I know.  But the main reason is because it is an integral part of my faith.   I believe my Christian faith calls me to love and respect each person I meet as a child of God.  God created them and loves them, and I need to love them too—even if I don’t think they’re very likeable, even if I feel uncomfortable around them, even if they make choices that are different from mine, even if they are bigots.  My faith teaches me that it is not my job to judge.
            As a white person, I need to care about systemic racism in our society.  I need to care enough to commit myself to do what I can to change things. 
            As a follower of Jesus, who reached out in love to those who were considered sinners or outcasts in society, I need to care about those in our society whom some others may judge as sinners. 
            As a person of faith committed to promoting greater understanding and cooperation between people who are different, I need to do what I can to combat prejudice and stereotyping. 
            In the upcoming political campaign cycle, there are sure to be candidates who try to gain votes by promoting divisiveness and fear of various groups.  This is a time of significant changes in our society, and people who think they can promote their agenda by exploiting peoples’ fears will surely do so.  We’ll all hear rhetoric about how we need to fear the loss of religious liberty and about Muslim terrorists in our communities.   I am committed to do what I can by sharing accurate information and thoughtful reflections. 
            In this time when so much is changing, a lot of us will be struggling.  Change is hard.  We won’t all agree about everything.   But we can all commit ourselves to be respectful  and constructive, as we work together to build a society in whch we have “liberty and justice for all.”

            As Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “We must learn to live together as brothers [and sisters] or perish together as fools."

Fran Hayes
June 29, 2015





[1] 1 John 4:8
[2] John 1:14
[3] Luke 4:16-21.  This is a quote from Isaiah 61.
[4] Matthew 22:34-40; also Mark 12:28-34.
[5] Luke 10:25-37
[6] 1 John 4:20-21.